We all know there's nothing as constant as change, but how are your people coping?
Do they face change with excitement and confidence, or with anxiety?
Any change is a movement from the old to the new.
While the new can be exciting (another word for "scary"?), it also brings loss - of the familiar, the safe, the known.
And with loss comes grief—& a need to let go of the past to embrace the future.
Change sparks questions & doubts, crises of confidence, like :
❓Will I cope?
❓Am I good enough?
❓I don’t know who I am any more.
❓I’m lost
And then there are emotions to process—fear, doubt, anxiety.
How do you embrace a new reality, and reconcile it with the past version of yourself that you have to let go of?
After living 26 years in the wrong marriage, 40 years in the wrong career and 59 years in the wrong body in just a few short years I have transitioned to become the woman I am today and I KNOW about transition and change.
In my 60’s, I have changed my life entirely, inside AND out ! And in navigating those changes I’ve learnt strategies and tools that can help your team navigate transition and emerge stronger on the other side.
The picture of me I’ve shared here, me just a few years ago— I’ve NEVER shown it online before.
People ask me “How did you do it Bobbi?” “What’s your secret?”
There are no secrets.
My message is not about gender, or physical transition. My message is about learnable actionable strategies, tools & mindset shifts.
The man in the picture, is unhappy, unfulfilled, & felt like he was failing. Yet I owe him everything — for his tenacity, his belief in a better future, his enduring struggle to overcome challenges, & ultimately to triumph.
And I guess he did, because the woman I am today, she is radiant, confident, fulfilled—happier than ever before.
I have transitioned from a me who thought my life conditions were my “REALITY”, my TRUTH.
But the truth was I was failing.
But now!!!
I have found personal power, self-confidence, self-trust, and freedom. Now, I get to create my own reality, a version of me that I adore, regardless of circumstances.
And having found this for me, now I teach others.
So if change is on the horizon for your organization or community, let's talk about how I can inspire and motivate your people to find their own personal power, fulfillment, and freedom within.
The woman I am today – she was always in me.
Yet I could have chosen to stay as I was.
Except I couldn’t.
Come on a journey with me.
A journey to become a future version of ourselves where we’re excited, lit up, resilient, & are empowered to create whatever reality we choose.
It’s the journey of a lifetime.
Message me, and let’s chat!
Love Bobbi ❤️
Inspirational speaker | Transformation Coach | Trans Woman | Model
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