🔥 You’ve got to WANT it !
If you don’t WANT it, you’re not going to HAVE it !
I mean REALLY want it, whatever it is; a “do whatever it takes” kind of wanting ! A “not quitting when it gets hard” kind of wanting. A “burning desire kind of wanting” A WHY.
I higher purpose.
Because when it gets hard, & it will, you need something to pull you through.
Pain can get you moving.
Being fed up with being fed up can get you moving.
And needing some extra $$ can get you moving, but these “away from” motivators rarely sustain.
What you want is a “towards” motivator.
When you are moving away from something you DON’T want, this is often not as powerful a motivator as moving towards something (your destination / your goal).
What do you REALLY want to be ?
Who CARES if you don’t show up today ?
To whom do you MATTER ?
Ask yourself “what do I REALLY want ?”
I mean honestly, when you get past all the constraints & all the made up & conditioned reasons why you can’t have it, why you're not good enough, & the “it will never happen so why bother even thinking about it” reasons. You know what I mean.
So many people don’t give themselves permission to truly go deep & ask this question.
I mean, what if you did & you failed ?
What would that say about you ? Would that make you a failure, or just someone who had failed ? How would you deal with that emotionally ? Would you be able to get back up & try again? And again?
Would you like to explore some different ideas of bring about the changes you want in your life?
Let’s talk.
Love Bobbi ❤️
Inspirational speaker | Coach | Mentor
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